We Asked These 15 Men To Explain What ‘I’m Not Looking For Anything Serious’ Really Means


We Asked These 15 Men To Explain What ‘I’m Not Looking For Anything Serious’ Really Means

1. “I would say, when I’ve advised a lady I’m conversing with that I’m not by any stretch of the imagination searching for something excessively genuine, they either don’t trust me or they simply don’t tune in. They accept I’m going to alter my opinion. Of course, that could happen. In any case, I know myself entirely well. In case I’m letting you know I don’t see this going anyplace genuine, that’s all there is to it. I’m not saying it for poops and snickers.” — Joshua, 21

2. “I like you enough to sporadically get smashed and stripped together. Be that as it may, I’m not enlightening my mother regarding you.” — Frank, 27

3. “It’s the most seasoned line in the book, however my employment keeps me super occupied. When I meet ladies, I make a point in letting them know that immediately. No one needs to be lead on. It’s a horrible feeling. So on the off chance that I say I’m not searching for something genuine, this is on the grounds that I put such a large amount of myself and vitality into my vocation, there isn’t a considerable measure left-over to devote to a relationship. I would prefer not to be unjustifiable to anybody.” — Justin, 26

4. “It’s entirely basic. He’s not that into you. I’ve never comprehended why young ladies attempt to break down something so clear. On the off chance that he enjoyed you enough, he’d need to be with you. He wouldn’t set up stipulations.”— Tristan, 31

5. “He wouldn’t like to farthest point his choices. He’s keeping the entryway open for individuals he needs to fu-uhhh, become acquainted with, to stroll through.” — Dave, 25

6. “I say that when I would prefer not to offend a girl when I understand there’s nothing more profound there.” — Sam, 25

7. “I don’t know if so for most men, however I’m truly watched with regards to sentiment. I take things moderate since I’ve had my heart so gravely softened up the past. So ordinarily when I say I’m not searching for something genuine, it’s a safeguard instrument.” — Saul, 28

8. “How is this begging to be proven wrong? You say that to somebody you like screwing, yet that is about it.” — Lyle, 23

9. “I’ve said that to ladies when I didn’t have a craving for being secured. Be that as it may, when I met the ideal individual, that completely changed. Possibly it isn’t so much that he’s effectively searching for something genuine, however believe me, when it shows up, he’ll immediately remember it.”— Sanjit, 24

10. “He needs to have intercourse with you, however doesn’t envision taking you home for the occasions. I’ve said this before (and had it said to me) and it’s the gentlest method for telling somebody, ‘I don’t care for you enough to need a genuine association with you.'”— Dwight, 28

11. “Better believe it, he loves you. Yet, he’s almost certain he’s equipped for preferring another person more. Reality harms, man.” — Mike, 22

12. “I don’t as a matter of course think saying that implies he isn’t into you. I know it’s contorted, however connections and cutting edge dating have been lessened to strategic maneuvers. It resembles whoever has the force has the control, and is the one more averse to get hurt. In the event that he plays the ‘Not That Invested’ card in the first place, he gets this odd force. Amazing, I unquestionably stable like a butt hole at this moment. Yet, it’s valid.” — Abraham, 24

13. “Nine times out of ten’s, despite everything he hung up on an ex. On the other hand another person in his life. ‘Not searching for something genuine’s is generally code for ‘wanting to be another person.'” — Logan, 22

14. “He doesn’t need a future with you. Help yourself out and proceed onward. It’ll wind up as this endless cycle of needing more, and him not willing to give more.” — Joe, 33

15. “You’re his ‘right now’ young lady. Try not to be tricked into speculation something more will bloom. Men are rash. They follow up on what they need. On the off chance that he needed you, I mean completely needed you, he wouldn’t put the brakes on. He’d simply need you. The distance.” — Andy, 25

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